tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post3864937007015618129..comments2024-03-22T15:37:29.563-04:00Comments on jersey girl looks up: Part IV - the hot/cold cup or the secret of right timingCatherine Ivinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01642469475264570967noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-91746772551974627102013-01-25T19:37:24.330-05:002013-01-25T19:37:24.330-05:00"We choose and in making that choice then hav..."We choose and in making that choice then have to choose again to be right with that decision or to be bitter and regretful." that's said much better than I did - it's us looking back at a decision and judging/labeling it as a wrong/bad decision that makes it a wrong/bad decision and keeps us stuck ... xoCatherine Ivinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01642469475264570967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-59564184503310893142013-01-25T19:11:20.833-05:002013-01-25T19:11:20.833-05:00hmm... just read the comment above about either de...hmm... just read the comment above about either decision on divorce being the right decision. <br /><br />I completely understood what you were saying. There were good and valid reasons for divorcing or not divorcing and no matter what decision you made it was going to be the right one because it would set you on a path that would bring both challenges and joys and that in the end you would find a way to meet your needs.<br /><br />There are many wiser decisions I could have made in my life but I don't think had I made those wiser decisions I would be any happier than I am today- I would have just had a different happiness. I will, however, admit that my struggles are what have made me content- I am not rich, but I am warm, I am surrounded by things I love, I have friends and love in my life, I have loved deeply and lost. I know that I need a partner not for happiness or contentment or to be whole but to have someone to share it all with.<br /><br />We choose and in making that choice then have to choose again to be right with that decision or to be bitter and regretful.KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02839682837427981888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-61260057144196470342013-01-25T19:01:16.978-05:002013-01-25T19:01:16.978-05:00Personally, I embrace change.
You are right, love...Personally, I embrace change.<br /><br />You are right, love is what matters. Not only who we love but who loves us. Everything else takes second place.KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02839682837427981888noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-90947100362543568922013-01-25T12:06:05.804-05:002013-01-25T12:06:05.804-05:00you don't have to believe in karma or planetar...you don't have to believe in karma or planetary alignments or holding space - rolling with it is always a good idea. I don't think the space is for what we want - it's more for what the planet needs .. which is more people living their passion and I guess that kind of means having what they want so maybe I do mean that in a longtail kind of way - ack. karma in astrology is more like little ties to things that have been left unfinished there is no good and bad, not like you do something bad and bad happens - life isn't judging us ever - I have to play that song today - a perfect song for a cold day! xo Catherine Ivinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01642469475264570967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-44370136018272646812013-01-24T19:47:46.933-05:002013-01-24T19:47:46.933-05:00how stupid that weather you get divorced or not it...how stupid that weather you get divorced or not it is the right decision - I don't think your child would think that - stupidAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-65787345768329516182013-01-24T10:25:47.097-05:002013-01-24T10:25:47.097-05:00I love that song too, Cat because it portends all ...I love that song too, Cat because it portends all kinds of possibilities.<br /><br />But, I do not believe in karma or the planets in alignment or making space for what we want. <br /><br />Life is messy and things happen, both good and bad when you least expect them. At least that's what happens in my life time and again.<br /><br /> I'm just trying to roll with it. :)Sherryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08425809129458460775noreply@blogger.com