tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post6827638573465616777..comments2024-03-22T15:37:29.563-04:00Comments on jersey girl looks up: 5 lessons I'm taking from 2013 ...Catherine Ivinshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01642469475264570967noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-61832333544711841412013-12-06T18:01:26.145-05:002013-12-06T18:01:26.145-05:00Yes the old oxygen mask on an airplane lesson - I ...Yes the old oxygen mask on an airplane lesson - I am always torn between the answer that feels harder - am I busy living or dying here, living = change and growth or the decision that feels easier, which I often can't shake is like giving up. I am just so damn desirous of peace and ease right now. I just got off the phone with someone I used to do business with years ago- since I knew her she has lost her husband and father, is about to lose her business and file for bankruptcy, her only daughter moved away and they only see each other twice a year and she totaled her truck yesterday - she has always been very high energy, an almost frantic energy and fast action - just talking to her brought how lucky I am right now so clearly into focus and how maybe choosing living doesn't have to equal chosing the harder thing, taking care of ourselves sounds like a good thing .... I hope you had a nice Thanksgiving Kathy xoCatherine Ivinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01642469475264570967noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3644717516426101893.post-46986608174413670772013-12-06T17:30:40.320-05:002013-12-06T17:30:40.320-05:00There are not right or wrong answers only better a...There are not right or wrong answers only better and worse answers. <br /><br />What we do for ourselves makes it possible to do for others. We have to love and care for ourself first before we can love and care for others, or the rest of the world because some of us think on grand scales. KJhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02839682837427981888noreply@blogger.com