Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Creative Tithing - Growing Bigger by Helping Others Grow Bigger, Too - Part 1 - Money

I truly believe that good things come to us with the right intention and the right practices.

Sometimes we set our intention (an important first step) for our businesses to grow but if we don't take the right action to make this growth possible, it doesn't happen in the ways we intended.

I know that one of the ways my business has grown is through acts of creative tithing.

Tithing means giving 1/10th of something away and creative tithing means giving 1/10th of something away in support of what feeds your soul creatively.

and by away I mean no strings attached, do with it as they wish - hasta la vista baby

(I used to call this "giving money away" but since I read Kristen Walker call it creative tithing on Scoutie Girl, I decided I like that better, too)

This is not about charity.

Supporting charitable causes is a good thing also, but there is a kind of imbalance there that creative tithing doesn't produce. It isn't about some elite someone 'up there' giving a handout to someone 'down there' because that would mean agreeing that the person/business you are tithing to is in need of your help and that is not what this is all about and not something you want to help create for them.

And, tithing isn't just about money -

it is really about expanding ourselves and about how nothing expands without everything else expanding right along with it.

For this post we'll focus on money- because if our creative venture is a business, the money factor is something we will all have to deal with.

The act of tithing is an act of gratitude, and even more importantly maybe, it is an act of faith. Gratitude for what we have been given and faith that there is more to come; lots and lots more.

Now, we can always find a reason not to begin -

(and you certainly do not have to do it, at least not with money, but the energy around money is very powerful)

maybe your shop has been slow and you are thinking you will do this when things pick up or maybe things have been hopping for you, but you never know this busyness could all end tomorrow and you need to hold onto what you have earned, right?

Just like any other practice you can always find a reason to not ... well, practice.

(but this is exactly why practice is so effective - it is like that treadmill ie clothes rack, we all have in our bedroom - we really don't want to get on there and do it, but we know we like how we feel afterwards, and if we waited until we felt like it, well ... we'd never be able to eat anything really good ever again!)

The thing about tithing is not to be thinking about the 10% that is gone. Nothing has "been taken from you". And if you have given that 10% in the right place and in the right way (and you will know that you have done this because it feels AMAZING), something new has just been magnetized into your life -

that wonderful shop with the quirky little amazing pieces that make you smile (buy one and give it to someone else to make them smile or keep it for yourself, why not, you deserve it!), that author whose book meant so much to you (buy another copy and give it away), the blog that you never miss reading every week (buy a month's worth of advertising on it) or buy that blogger's ebook since you read all the stuff they write for free!

And don't forget the person who put that craft show together where you met so many amazing people and learned so many new things- why not send her a piece of your work! There are as many ways to do this as there are creatives who inspire and support us!

Buying from new artists who are just starting out is also great if you truly love and value their work. You are not doing anyone any favors by buying something that you do not like.

(I once saw a seller post in the forums about her lack of sales. For some reason her post stayed with me. I looked at her shop later on and could see that she probably needed to work on her technique before she tried selling her wares. But, the spirit had overtaken me and I went ahead and bought something and then I emailed my friend and asked her to buy something, too! I felt all good about myself until I noticed a week or so later that this seller had filled her shop with this item since it was now her "best seller" and this was not a good thing - I definitely had not helped her to expand)

When I first started tithing I took tiny, little baby steps. I gave away 10% of income that was over a certain amount and also money that sort of came at me out of the blue. But since I often find that out of the blue income will magically meet up with an out of the blue expense, I knew I had to open myself up to imagining something bigger for myself. I had to commit.

So, I just do a weekly tally of profits and use 10% to support and promote other creatives.

I sometimes keep the dollar bills in an envelope because I think cash sends a message to my subconscious in a bigger way than numbers in my paypal account can

(and I like the way it smells, I do, it is kind of a sickness).

Recently I got a large chunk of cash from the sale of an old domain name.

Now there was a big part of me that wanted to hold onto the whole thing; put it away for the ebb that inevitably follows the flow. I mean it was all fine and good to tithe 10 bucks here and 20 bucks there, but 10% of this was $180.00!

This felt like way too much!

I took a deep cleansing breath.

(yes, I live in New Jersey, so I took a fast, deep cleansing breath)

I knew that I was very thankful for this unexpected money. I knew that there was alot more unexpected money out there for me.

I knew a group of girls who would benefit most decidedly from a certain book "The Daring Book for Girls" - so I ordered 10 copies and am going to have a little croquet tournament, yup, that's right, the game with the balls that can crack your head open if you ever get hit with one- what's life without a little challenge, I say - when I present them (this is just one of the great creative ventures in the book).

About 3 hours after I ordered the books, I got an unexpected wholesale order for almost this exact amount. This has happened before.

I once had this happen to me in reverse.

Many years ago, I bought a hand drum. It was $195.00. When I got home I realized the salesperson had rung up the drum for $1.95. I knew I should call the store or go back to the store or do something.

I kept waiting for the store to make an adjustment in my checking account, but the adjustment never came. I sat on it, I think secretly hoping that I had just spent $1.95 on a $195.00 hand drum, but also knowing deep inside that this was not my money anymore.

The next week I had a craft show. I took credit cards from my customers, but I couldn't actually put them through because I had no phone service. When I got home and ran the cards through I had two $100.00 declined cards. I couldn't believe it - I had never had any declined cards before and these were my only two large orders from the show!

A couple days later I went back to the music store with my receipt and told them that a mistake had been made. They fixed it. And as you can probably guess by now, the next day, both my declined credit cards, all $200.00 worth, went through easily.

Now, in my mind at the time I did not connect these two things, but I do now, although I am not sure how this connects to my post, but it is rather interesting, don't you think?

Of course, you do not have to give your money away but if the plans for your crafty venture include making more money than tithing with money can be a powerful act to do in the present moment that expresses thankfulness for the past and faith in the future at the same time.

But, it is definitely not the only way to do this. If money doesn't feel like a good discipline for you, there are other ways to work on expansion and expansive thinking with creative tithing.


We will talk about some of these in Part II, next Wednesday.

Spending our money consciously is a very dynamic thing and by making the decision to spend some of that money on the creative people that feed our soul- our whole world can expand!

What do you think?

16 comments:

Helena (XOXO Parisky) said...

Thank you for this post. It's very inspirational!

Catherine Ivins said...

Thank you Helena- was hoping to not sound preachy- ack!

ana carina said...

It's Karma baby. I'm all for it.
When I finally get my salary (I've been without work for 3 months now) I'm going to do some tithing of my own.
I loved this post. But you know what? It only works if you believe it, yup. :)

Sherry said...

I deeply and truly believe in what you have written today. I sometimes think of the ripple effect that my small gifts have.

It's one of the reasons I love KIVA so much. I read the stories of the women who want to open bodegas or brick factories and I am grateful to be a small part of their journey. And yes, I get a kick out of doing it on etsy as well.

Karma, intangible, yet so powerful. I'm glad to see another example of it. It's like gravity, you don't always understand it, but it works.

A wonderful post today, my friend.

xoSherry

Sylvia-Louise Handbags said...

I'm a strong believer of creative tithing---I just never had a name for it before. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights!

Orion Designs said...

I've been doing this for years, without thinking about it or giving it a name. I never come home from a craft show without a new piece of pottery or jewelry or artwork.

As a craft show producer, I've also been the recipient of such generosity.

It feels good on both sides of the table.

Catherine Ivins said...

Vicki- yes, I have been on the other side of it, too and it feels good both ways and I love Kiva also Sherry- it is a perfect example of artists helping other artists! Thanks so much Sylvia-Louise and karma yuppers Ana!

alamodestuff said...

I agree with you completely. Since I'm a believer in what goes around comes around, I have always tried to live and work with promoting and giving to others. It is an amazing thing to see success come back to yourself especially when you don't expect it.

Your Etsy series is also a great way you are giving. And, kudos for buying some of your giveaway items. You've inspired me!!

M.M.E. said...

I have had things like this happen so many times in my life. Now I try to listen to what the universe is telling me when I make a profit. And thanks to this post, I now know a much better way to spend that money. Thank you!

iHanna said...

This is such a great post, and the little stories makes it spicy and interesting. That kind of thing is called serendipity, and I guess it works with money too... sometimes. :-)

I've also been reading your post on selling on etsy and marketing yourself. I went over there and hearted some of the beautiful things I saw, I hope they (the seller) notice! I know a thing I want to buy, we'll see if I do.

juliette said...

Thank you for inspiring me to give creatively. I've been having a repeat thought about offering a free poster to a specific customer. You helped me make that leap. Many thanks!

schur said...

Creative tithing...wonderful! I am completely inspired by this post. You get what you give and we all can give more. If we think more of others, we will get back tenfold. But like you say, it has to be genuine. I get the most satisfaction in making treasuries on Etsy when one of the artists I feature says I have "made their day". That makes my day!

Lucy Fagella said...

I found this post through Etsy. I'm brand new to Etsy this month, and loving reading all the tips. Thanks for taking the time to write a wonderful blog. This post is sooo good. You are surely creating a ripple effect!

Sara said...

I've never heard of creative tithing - did you make that up? It's a great idea and I'm going to work that plan into my business. Thanks for the inspiration!

Melissa said...

I really love this post. I have never heard of the actual term tithing before, but am well aware of the concept. :)

cookie said...

I'm inspired.
thanks.

xo